Perry Baker

Perry S. Baker #805748

My name is Perry S. Baker. I am 6'4" tall, have brown hair, and greenish eyes. I have been in prison now 12 years alone and I am seeking all types of people to write to me, no matter what your race or religion is, whether your young or old, single or married, gay or lesbian. I grew up in the Bay Area of California of which I was exposed to a lot of different lifestyles so I am familiar with that. I know that each person is different and that's what makes each person special in this or her own way. I do not judge people, for who am I to judge another person? I am from a split family which means, that some of my family are either in Law Enforcement, the other part are Lesbains and Strippers. We who did not meet the expectations of the rest of the family are shunned by them. That's what our society does, if you do not meet their expectations to live in this society, then you're shunned. They do this not only to their own families, but to prisoners, gay, or lesbian lifestyles, crippled, blind, dwarfism, etc.. Because we do not live like they live. That's what makes us different than they, and I believe stronger than they are. My closest family are people I grew up with in the Bay Area and they are Lesbains. But I learn a lot from them. For one, they do not have their defensive walls up in their lives. They are very intimate with one another, they expose themselves openly because they know their mate will not reject or hurt them physically or emotionally. I learn a lot from people. I am straight forward, honest and I expect the same in return. I was married once at 24 years old. But my wife and I were mere sexual partners, we never knew one another intimately. I believe that is where it counts the most, in any relationshop, be it friends, married or relationships. I do not play con games with people, nor do I ask for money. I do not use other people to get what I want. I believe society does enough of that on it's own, which is sad. Jannet and Stella, family members of mine are lesbians, they live in the Bay Area in the lesbian community of San Fransisco California. They told me this on wedding rings: some people are a band and some people are the diamond. When they come together they create the wedding ring. The diamond can always share with others and it's like some of the diamond shared with others so that they shine as well. You can always learn a lot from others if you just listen to them. Love comes from the heart, mind, emotions, spirit. Sexual relations deepen that love with the other person, so that they know the other one more intimately. But true love is not where you bump and grind it. Sure, all of us love one another in the physical way differently, whether it's in S&M, B&D, Gay, Lesbian, Swingers or just simple sex with the other. Music is like a universal language, no matter what kind it is. It all speaks to our emotions and heart, be it country, rap, soul, classical, rocl & roll, or gospel. Some songs will make us get up and dance, some songs will make us sit and listen, some songs will make us cry. Like say Bob Dylan's song, "Knock, Knock on Heaven's Door", we all relate to that I'm sure, but for each of us it is different because we all are different, not the same and that is just another way of seeing we are all special. Let's face it, there will never be another you. I'm 39 years old and I was born on June 10, 1961. I am a Gemini. I understand a lot of what New Age speaks, about finding the soul mate and discovering our inner self and taking down our deffensive walls in our lives with other people and with ourselves. I read a lot of books and I do not limit what I read or listen to, or who I talk to or am friends with, I am an open minded person. I listen to other people cause you can always learn from one another, no matter who you are. All are welcome to write to me, no matter what life-style you live, or of you are Anglo-American, Asian American, Afro-American, Mexican American or Japanese American or if you're from other countries, no matter who you are, you are all welcomed to my door. I look forward to your letters.

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  • Perry S. Baker #805748
  • PO Box 316
  • Fort Madison, Iowa 52627-0316
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