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| Location: Philadelphia Suburbs Status: Single & Available, Never Married Age: 40 and Holding Body Stats: 5'11" - 129 lbs. Measurements: 40-28-38 ... with a little help |
| Miss Joanetta is not a Crossdresser nor a Transvestite, although she used to be - that is when she was a heterosexual male. Joanetta feels that she has now "graduated", "been promoted", and "evolved" to a Higher Level of Personal Sexuality within herself! No longer will she suffer from Gender Dysphoria and be untrue to her "inner self"! It has taken the better part of her life to accept the fact that "Joanetta is a woman trapped in a man's (earthly) body"! There is no denying it anymore, and no use to continue trying to suppress the inevitable outcome! Miss Joanetta considers herself to be a TRANSSEXUAL DRAG QUEEN in the true sense of the currently accepted textbook definition. She has dealt with her tormenting transsexual feelings all of her life. Joanetta is a NON-OP TransSexual (not a post or pre-op); she is not on hormones, nor has she had any electrolysis - these luxuries are far beyond her finiancial capabilities. |
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| Just what exactly is |
| In a Nutshell: Transsexuality means having the wrong body for the gender one really is! |
| What exactly is a Drag Queen? The term DRAG was originally coined by Shakespeare to mean: |
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| irl |
| which symbolized |
| male actors who played women's roles. Today, it is used in the gay community to refer to cross-dressing, usually erotic feminine attire. |
| So, it seems that Miss Joanetta is ultimately trapped in between these two definitions. 1. She does not consider herself as a GAY MALE because of her craving for Anal Sex - that is part of her TransSexual or Feminine Nature! 2. Yet, She does not feel fully TransSexual - because she is confined to only being a Queer DRAG QUEEN solely on weekends! |
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| Joanetta has reached the age where she can not pass anymore! Passing as a Female was once an important part of her "escapades", but it soon became boring - being treated like every other girl! Now, Joanetta is more about her "Outrageous Attitude" in Public Settings! It has become more fascinating to hear: "Look! There goes a guy in a dress; but damn, he looks good"! It is a hell of a lot more fun to stand out in a crowd and draw attention to myself! A guaranteed tactic to have men with stiff pants drooling over me! |
| Miss Joanetta on PASSING |
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| The Game Of "What Am I?" |
| If you are a Male-To-Female transsexual and you are attracted to men, then what is really going on? Are you gay or straight or what? The answer depends on how one chooses to look at the transsexual. |
| If what matters is identity (the mind and the heart, then - you are a heterosexual woman with very standard desires! |
| If all that matters is the birth shape of the skin (in the past, present or future), then - you are an altered gay man experiencing homosexual desires. |
| If all that matters is the current cut of the skin, then - a pre-op is a gay man and a post-op is a straight woman. |
| The problem is that, however you may define yourself, others will create definitions of their own over which you have little or no control! |
| If the transsexual is considered a unique creature (a "third sex"), then - all definitions become moot ... perhaps being some shade of bisexual might come closest! |
| What you must do is to be conscious of this, and determine what you want, and what you are willing to do, accept and teach, to get what you want. You must also be aware of the very real dangers involved. |