Go to church not because you have to, but because you want to. Rely on God always. Go forward in life knowing that God is your father and he will always love you no matter what. Know that God's plan is BIGGER and unfathomable to us mere mortals. God knows why things happen, so we should go forward in our lives knowing that he's in control. our purpose is to love, know, and obey him in this life, so we can be happy with him in the next. So everything we do on earth should be done for the greater glory of God.  Remember also that God is your father and that everything you do reflects on him. So be a child of God completely. Jesus is God who became a man. So his divinity is in EVERYONE. "Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, that you do unto me." Assume that everyone is Jesus in disguise, and treat them with honor and love as you would to Jesus.