When in Rome?

Do have an interesting question and debate...there is a saying when in rome do like the romans do..when a kajira goes from room to room in Gor..they are required to follow the rules of that room..whether it is to beg permission to enter or not....or if it is a tavern, vs a private room, there are certain forms of ettiquette, regulations, and ways a kajira must present themselves....but what happens when the kajira goes out of Gor?....ventures into the regular BDSM rooms..or even the reg chat rooms?...is that constant kajirea structure required by her?..one would say no...as long as they uphold, respect, and there actions show their owner in pride...for her actions..do reflect the training and her owner. And a kajira/slave..will be punished/disciplined accordingly based on how she chooses to present herself and it is indeed a Choice...as Master once said to a girl which she will never forget... "People dont force others to act poorly, just provide opportunity for you to choose poorly"..so it is indeed the choice of the individual how they choose to present themselves..but the question comes to mind..."is it right?"...please note that tay is not judging, or saying what is right or not right.

For when a Master/Mistress of Gor..walks into the reg rooms...they bring with them the Gorean philosophy..rather then conforming to the statutes of that room....but yet...when one of the BDSM realm ventures into Gor..they MUST uphold the laws of Gor...so the question this girl has is........when a Master, Mistress, FP, slave, sub, troll, or just passerby..ventures into a Room...should they automatically conform to the ways of the room?...or should they stick by what they know, what they believe is right, and what they wish to do?....

A girl brings this up for this is one of the reasons why there is alot of hate towards Goreans, and negative stereotypical views about the what a Gorean is...many times..just the fact that one is gorean..or appears to be..can bring negative hostility in a reg room..and just the fact that one may not appear to even be Gorean..going into a gor room will most certainly get clicked.

Interesting enough...a girl had a public debate on this issue..the following is excerpts from that debate...

"should one conform to the ways of others..because that is the "law" of the way one should act when in that room?..or should they just be themselves..and suffer the consequences of being "self"....or should just lose themselves to the stereptypical views of others?"

one is not true to Gor untill they do return to beeng them self, to deal with the troubles they myay cause in doing such .... better said .... to be one self and face the consiquences is to be Gorean"

a girl wears a gorean collar, has a gorean Master, and is indeed a servant to his gorean home stone....but a girl will flat out say..that although all those things are true....she is NOT gorean..why?...for until the day she can honestly look within herself..and see a true Gorean...to fully embrace..and live by the Gorean laws completely and totally...and to be one with the philosophy of what a kajira is...and who she is......she is not that...but..when in Gor..she conforms to the ways..because she is here for her Master..whoms she is happy to serve, loves to serve, and who lights up her world completely and totally..~smiles~..to be his..is a complete and total joy to her heart.........and when in Gor...she "conforms to the ways"....when out of Gor...she goes to the basement..and is herself..outgoing partying, fun time..talkative girl...who may be a little insolent..but that is her....and the problem is....the harassement she gets...for not being the "perfect kajira"..when out of Gor"....she is herself when in the reg rooms.....she conforms to the Gorean ways when in Gor rooms.....and either way....she is with Master..completely and totally...and true to him only....the problem is when..Not with him.."

".... it is not to conform, but to find where in Gor you belong"

in true Gorean fashion, you are only to please the one that owns you.. the rest may pound sand.. as long as one is in Gor, you must behave accordingly.. but you have said that you have fallen under Gorean judgement when not in Gor..."what juristiction do they have on Urth?" think of this sister... those with wagging tongues on Gor are as those on Urth... bored with themselves and looking to spark something...

there is only one you have to answer to ... your Master ... if all is well with him, then the words of any other have no meaning

Indeed..it is all equals up to Master...for his say is the final word the rest do have no meaning...so a final question a girl has..if anyone does have any input on this topic is.."when in Rome???....................

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