BONDAGE..woo hoo....one of the most Dangerous yet exotic forms of BDSM..many accidents happen due to ignorance in bondage..it can be a sensual...way to control and dominate...can be through absolute pleasure or through pain.
and it most certainly isnt something for amatures....i mean many times you will find people who say. they love to tie up..yet have no clue as to safty procautions...even how to tie a knot
So what do you get from that relinquishing of control?.....freedom.....to live exactly in the moment..to not worry about what the next move is
when a sub goes into "sub space" especially when bound.....they cant feel pain, cant feel anything...and that is how accidents can happen..for there can be cut circulation, or a slippage of the knot....ect....and that i is why it is up to the Dom/mes for in bondage..thsi is the one act where the sub really has no control when bound...even if there is safe word or action"
to utterly have the person under your control...carefully tie up the person..constantly checking rechecking..slowly and carefully....to make sure that you do not hurt or injure....and to see how that person can be utterly in your control..then when it is over...removing the binds..has that delicate intricate patterns in the skin..of where you left your rope.."
As dom its simpler for me to talk about what I get from it ..... for me its a visiual thing. I have alwasy been kind of voueristic and this just takes it a step further..There is a strange fealing of pride/acomplishement ..... to step back away from them and say to yourself "I did that" .....and to have them displayed as well. A combination of the beauty of their flesh merged with the beauty of the detailed ropework ..... much the same way an artist would feel pride having his masterpiece displayed in a gallary for all to see
There is a very percise "headspace" that bondage brings about. There in an endorphin high and the brain starts putting out alpha waves. Its a condition a lot like "runners high" if you have done any marathon running or it also can be compared to "highway hypnosis"
"Its a cary calm fealinig. Relaxing. Soothing. Almost sleepy. (and its not unusual for someone to fall asleep quickly do to heavy bondage. This isnt because they are bored but because of the "calm" that comes over them in headspace)"
However bondage can be stimulation driven as well. Especialy if you use natural fiber ropes like manilia or sasil. Struggling and tugging agains these can be just as stimulating as a strike from a flogger"
bondage is now adays uncommon online..for it doesnt deal with the Master sub type relationship...it is more...it is that intense rush..that you get from being bound...it takes it on a whole nother plane"
In western bondage the idea is mostly foreplay. Its functional. quick to tie and untie. and usualy opens the body up for easy access in play...On the other hand asian bondage is decorative more than it is functional. The mail goal is to get the bottom to just sit there looking atractive. To this end harsher ropes are used (so they sont struggle and will sit still) and the amount of time taken is longer. Also the bondage is almost always an event all by itself. so opening up the body to get to the "good parts" is not realy critical
